The funniest thing my dad ever did
He once drove forty minutes to bring me a phone charger, then handed me the wrong cable and refused to admit it. I still keep that cable in a drawer.
Stories from others
Not advice — just people who've been here. Sometimes that's the only thing that helps.
The song that reminds me of my wife
She sang Landslide badly, on purpose, every single time it came on. Now I sing it badly too, and it feels like she's in the car.
What helped me after losing my dog
I kept his bowl out for three weeks. Nobody told me to move it. When I finally did, it was because I was ready, not because it was time.
What I wish someone had told me
That the second year can be harder than the first, and that doesn't mean you're going backwards.
A small thing that helped
A neighbour left soup on the step with a note that just said 'no need to reply'. That sentence was the whole gift.
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